Hindsight they say is 20/20. I have never been able to figure who out who “they” are but they are often correct.
Spring is upon us, which always puts a pep in our step and gets the cobwebs off the to do list.
It is hard to believe this week we are preparing the house/yard for our daughter to host our grandsons first birthday. That being said, the trick is in the balance of enjoying it all a long the way.
When we were younger and preparing for a big party the preparations would have us exhausted come party day. This is the beauty of hindsight, here are a few things we learned a long the way:
Prepare what you can in advance.
Make a list, cross off and add on as you go, somethings might not get done and usually won’t make a difference.
That scuff on the wall, don’t worry, hire the painter post party there will be many more!
If you don’t want it broken, don’t have it out…
Clean the house but don’t freak yourself out, you will need to really clean when everyone is gone.
A causal party will have people coming and going, use the round off number for food and drink.
If you want something done at a certain time, it’s easier now with smart phones, set the alarm on your phone so time doesn’t slip away.
If someone offers to help and you can count on them, take them up on their offer. (this is a tricky one took me almost 50 years)
If it is in your budget and depending on the party, hire a couple of people to clean up trash in the height of the party. We started catering, cleaning people and bartenders later on for parties and this really allowed us to enjoy our guests.
If your friends are the guests they already know you, you don’t have to impress them. They just want to share in your joy and fun. Take the time to socialize, the mess will be there when they leave.
That being said, I have a list to conquer because those lists don’t conquer themselves!
I*t’s been a while since I’ve sat to write not the case of writers block but writer be busy.